In Order To Attract Someone Who Is Kind, Caring, Loving, & Forgiving You Must Become That Person

I've had people say to me that they want to have a partner that is loving, kind, thoughtful, forgiving, and considerate.  I tell them that it's great to want that but that they have to become the person they want to attract.  A loving, thoughtful, kind, caring, and forgiving person doesn't want to be in a relationship with their emotional opposite.  People who are emotionally balanced like the company of other loving and balanced people.  Only steel and magnets are the opposites that attract, not people!