How To Attract A Great Partner Into Your Life

Ignorance Isn't Bliss!

We live in a society where people don't want to logically and comprehensively examine the facts related to anything they consider to be taboo like addiction and homelessness.  I was speaking to this guy earlier today who said that drunks and addicts like living the way they do or they'd change.  Nothing could be further from the truth!  Millions of Americans are clinically depressed due to early childhood trauma and turning to drugs and alcohol as an escape mechanism.  It doesn't take a genius to understand that trauma and untreated depression (chemical imbalance) can lead to drug abuse and alcoholism as well as to homelessness.  Saying that addicts and alcoholics would be able to overcome their condition if they just wanted to is like saying that the millions of Americans who are obese could lose the weight if they really wanted to.  Mental illness (better described as chemical imbalance) is something we don't want to discuss because as a society we tend to ignore what we find to be unpleasant.  When the body doesn't have the proper amount of vitamins, nutrients, and serotonin motor and cognitive skills are adversely affected.  Many people mistakenly believe that mental illness is contagious and that if we don't discuss it it will just go away.  I would think that as a society we would want to apply the scientific method to mental health, addiction, and homelessness.  Are we our brother's keeper?  Of course we are!  Our view of helping others is a direct reflection on how we view ourselves.  We live in an interdependent society that is only as strong as its weakness link.  A society that doesn't help its weakest members needs to take responsibility for negative conditions that aren't addressed instead of blaming others.

Relax & Everything In Your Life Will Become Easier

When we relax and let go of fear our minds have a clear view of what to do and whom to contact in order to bring us out of a state of uncertainty into one of tranquility and confidence.  If you sew love, generosity, and joy you will reap an abundant harvest of security, happiness, and personal fulfillment.

In Order To Attract Someone Who Is Kind, Caring, Loving, & Forgiving You Must Become That Person

I've had people say to me that they want to have a partner that is loving, kind, thoughtful, forgiving, and considerate.  I tell them that it's great to want that but that they have to become the person they want to attract.  A loving, thoughtful, kind, caring, and forgiving person doesn't want to be in a relationship with their emotional opposite.  People who are emotionally balanced like the company of other loving and balanced people.  Only steel and magnets are the opposites that attract, not people!

A Flexible Body Produces A Flexible Mind & Vice Versa

When we consciously decide to engage in Kundalini yoga in order to become more flexible in our bodies this indicates that we are willing to try new things, meet new people, face our fears, and move outside our comfort zone.  When you practice yoga you are showing a commitment to yourself and to those you love.  As you improve your body through Kundalini yoga you will improve your mind, the way you relate to yourself, and the way you interact with those around you.

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Give Unconditionally In Order To Receive Abundantly

It's very important to give unconditionally.  When we open our hand to give we also make space to receive good things from others and benefit from this balanced outlook on life.  On the other hand, a fist that will not open to give prevents itself from receiving.

Take A Moment To Stretch, Breath, & Think About What You're Going To Say & Do

Most people are walking through their lives in a state of semi-consciousness.  When I see people say and do things that keep bringing them negative results it's obvious to me that they are rushing through their lives.  It's very important to take a moment to stretch and breath and truly think about the consequences of our words and actions.  Since everything we do and say is filtered through our self-image it's important to understand that when we say and do nice things for others we are demonstrating how we feel about ourselves and how we treat ourselves.  Improve your self-image every day and all of your relationships will also improve.

When You Can Love & Believe In Yourself You Can Love & Believe In Others

Our self-image is what we filter everything we say and do through.  Your self-image is projected out in front of you like a hologram via your subconscious mind.  When you speak loving and compassionate words to others this indicates how you feel about yourself.  When we judge others this indicates that there are things within ourselves that we find difficult to live with and forgive ourselves for.  The truth of our existence is that we are all worthy of being treated with love, dignity, and respect.  Embrace this truth in order to free yourself from the bondage of self-doubt.  You deserve every good thing in this life.  I love you!

Revenge Is Illogical & Counterproductive

Revenge is foolish because two negative actions never result in a positive outcome.  When we seek to do harm to someone else we are seeking to harm ourselves.  This shows a lack of insight and poor judgment.  Forgiving the other person is a demonstration that we have come back to a balanced state of mind.  We understand that nothing can undo what has been done but we can make our peace with it release from our mind and body. 

The Mind/Body Connection Is Powerful

People walk around holding anger and resentment in the muscles of their body.  Relaxation produced by massage, laughter, and yoga can release the anger and negative thought patterns that the mind is unwilling to let go of.  As the body is the mind follows and vice versa.  The more flexible we are in our bodies the more open to change and new ideas we'll be.  Keeping our minds open to new things and different points of view will keep our bodies healthy and flexible. 

Improve Your Self-Image & You'll Improve The Quality Of Your Relationships & Life

Our self-image determines our fate.  Believe in yourself, love yourself, respect yourself, take good care of yourself, stand up for yourself, and you will attract people who will love you, respect you, care well for you, stand up for you, and so much more!  It's important to teach others how we expect to be treated and be in the driver's seat of our lives.  This life is your opportunity to be happy, fulfilled, and loved.  Remember, this life isn't a dress rehearsal!

Honor Your Truth With Words & Actions

When we express our thoughts and dreams via words and actions we show respect for ourselves and inspire others to courageously live their truth.  We have an opportunity to let our light shine each day!  Let your light of power and fearlessness shine brightly!

Believe In Yourself & Others Will Too

When we have faith in ourselves and our abilities this light will glow so brightly that others won't be able to avoid seeing this illumination of who we are and what we can do.  Others will be drawn to you and seek to collaborate with you on mutually exciting and beneficial ventures.  Have faith in yourself and let your light shine brightly!

Humor Is Life Saving

When you feel distressed and emotionally stuck just find something humorous to watch and laugh.  Laughter bursts the illusion of confinement and deprivation.  Laughter reinvigorates the mind, body, and spirit.  You'll find that things aren't as bad as you thought they were.  Laughter allows us to relax and regain our emotional equilibrium. 

As The Body Is The Mind Follows And Vice Versa

People who are set in their ways are also very inflexible in their bodies.  As people get older they don't have to suffer from stiff joints and a lack of mobility.  By keeping an open mind and practicing Chi Gong and yoga we can maintain a body that is supple and adaptable. 

It Takes Two Reasonable People To Come To A Reasonable Agreement

It's important to be truly reasonable when seeking to settle a difference with another person.  The other person also has to be committed to arriving at a reasonable solution.  Successful conflict resolution isn't about one person winning and the other person losing.  Everyone's reasonable opinions and requests need to be respected and honored.  When both parties' can meet in the middle there is an understanding that success is a joint effort.  People who just want to win and put down the other person are setting themselves up for failure.  Life is a joint and not a solo venture.

When We Help Others To Succeed We All Succeed

True success in life involves helping others around us to succeed without pride or prejudice getting in the way.  Pride and competition are negative and imbalanced perspectives on life.  Feeling that others think they're better than you is an indication that you feel inferior to others!  Remember that when you imagine that others are thinking certain negative thoughts about you it's really your subconscious mind bringing up what you think of yourself in relation to other people.  The better and more balanced our self-image the more we will understand that assisting others is a way of helping ourselves and our society as a whole.  As a society we are all dependent upon one another. People who let their insecurities get in the way of appreciating the talents of others lead very dismal lives.  It's only when we can appreciate our own talents that we are able to acknowledge the gifts possessed by others.

Forgiveness Heals The Mind, Body, & Spirit

Forgiveness is incredibly healing.  When we are forgiven for mistakes we've made we feel like a weight has been lifted off our shoulders.  When we can forgive others we know that we can forgive ourselves.
Forgiving others means we will also be shown mercy.  Forgiveness has the power to rejuvenate the mind, body, and spirit.

Everything We Say & Do Is A Reflection Of Our Self-Image

Whatever we say to others is a reflection of how we feel about ourselves.  We are always filtering the things we say and do to others through the image we have of ourselves.  Our self-image is comprised of everything we believe about ourselves whether true or false, favorable or unfavorable.  People who speak to others in a loving and compassionate manner love themselves and concentrate on the positive aspects of themselves and others.

Become The Partner You Want

Many people talk about how they want to meet someone who is attractive, unconditionally loving, kind, thoughtful, and generous.  We can only attract what we are. Imitation is considered the sincerest form of flattery and that's why we always end up with partners and friends who are so much like ourselves. When we exercise generosity, unconditional love, kindness, and thoughtfulness we will find ourselves in the midst of those with like qualities.

I Am My Brother's Keeper

As a society it's important to understand that each person has a responsibility to look after one another.  When one member of society succeeds the entire community is benefited.  Society is a collective entity of interdependent members.  Our ability to look after every member of our society equally is an indication that we know how to care for ourselves and ask for help when needed. Humility and unconditional love are the cornerstones of a great societty

Fear Is An Obstacle To Success

Most people aren't as successful as they could be due to unfounded fears.  Fear exists only in the mind. People imagine the worst case scenario instead of relaxing and formulating a plan for success.  Caution, unlike fear,  enables us to take action in order to remove ourselves from real danger.  While fear paralyzes, courage mobilizes us to take action in order to overcome obstacles and accomplish great things!

We Treat Others The Way We Feel We Deserve To Be Treated

Everything we do and say is filtered through our self-image.  Think of your self-image as a hologram projected out in front of you at the subliminal level.  Whenever we say or do something to another person this reflects what we feel about ourselves at the deepest level.  People who love and appreciate themselves unconditionally, acknowledge their own talents, and exhibit a high level of self care have the ability to love and appreciate others unconditionally, encourage the best in those they come into contact with, and care for loved ones in a healthy and balanced way.  We are constantly projecting who we are with every word and action.